Nov 112009
I want to try and ask out a certain guy I have the hots for…he is a cigarette smoker, but does not know I am…I want to ask him out, should I expose my cigarette smoking when I ask him out and use it as a selling point, I know this sounds crazy, because people hate smokers, but I thought in this case it might be an asset…anyone have experience with this..I really have the hots for this guy and want him bad
you shouldn’t need the cigarettes as a selling point… I doubt this guy is so simplistic that smoking would be the deal breaker. You could use it as a way to strike up a conversation though I suppose.
you’re an idiot, if you start smoking just to try n get a guys attention.. shouldnt he like you for who you are? …and if he doesnt.. move on..
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It depends. It will either be a neutral factor or a positive one, so it doesn’t matter. Also, smoking is +1 for cool points… so why not?
Also, do like a french inhale or something cool. Blow smoke rings at him… he he. He’ll catch on.
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Occasional smoker… waiting for the day when the magical healthy cigarette is born! Ha!
I know exactly what you mean. I think all smoker’s want to be with smoker’s.
Try bumming a smoke…but say you left yours in car or something so you don’t seem like a leach…and then ask him out
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Ewww…no I don’t think this will turn him on! I doubt even smokers are turned on by smoking.
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Not if he hates smoking.
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The only asset is that you would be able to go on the smoke breaks with him and maybe strike up conversation with the typical "Can I bum a cigarette?".
I would find another way to strike up conversation, I don’t think because you have the desire for nicotine in common would be what you can build a relationship on. Find another way to talk to him.
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you shouldn’t need the cigarettes as a selling point… I doubt this guy is so simplistic that smoking would be the deal breaker. You could use it as a way to strike up a conversation though I suppose.
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